There are levels to warmth.
She Speaks Softly:
How To Be Warm, Respected, and Remembered Without Raising Your Voice
The #1 mistake women make in communication?
Trying to get connection through control.
Yelling. Sharp tone. Passive jabs.
And then wondering why it doesn’t build trust.
She Speaks Softly shows you a better way.
is the book every woman (and little woman) didn’t know she needed…until now.
This isn’t just about communication.
It’s about returning to the woman you were before survival became your strategy.
she speaks softly
Inside These Pages, You’ll Learn:
myth one:
myth two:
myth three:
“This book is about whispering.”
Truth:
No. You can whisper and your voice still sound like wrath.
This isn’t merely about volume…
it’s about your presence carrying weight before you ever speak.
“This book puts pressure on the woman to fix the marriage.”
Truth:
No. What a weight no woman should carry alone!
She Speaks Softly will never condemn you,
but it will give you the tools to walk through your home as a relaxed woman.
“This book wants to dampen my personality.”
Truth:
Never.
The fruit of the Spirit doesn't shrink your personality -
it disciplines it.
You don’t have to become silent to become powerful.
3 Myths You May Be Wondering About This Book
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Jasmine H. Corporate Attorney
"Amanda’s teachings completely shifted the way I speak to my husband. I used to feel like I had
to be loud to be heard. Now, I speak with softness and strength—and he actually leans in to
listen. There’s more peace in our home, and more love in our marriage.”
Learning to speak with warmth, clarity, and emotional weight is the key to building beautiful
bonds at home and respected in leadership, and it’s attainable only through the She Speaks
Softly system.
This is the first communication book for Christian women who want to be warm in their marriage, calm in their home, poised in leadership, and still deeply respected. This isn’t surface-level softness. This is emotional weight, nervous system regulation, and spiritual depth. You won’t find this on Tik-Tok.
Because women are waking up…different. Tired of being loud to be heard.
Tired of being respected publicly but disconnected privately.
Tired of being powerful on paper, but tense in real life. Now is the time to reset.
“ Your life changes at the speed of what you disallow”
You learned to “speak up,”
but did anyone teach you how to speak from a regulated place?
How to use your tone as a tool, not a trigger. You’ve been surviving through tension. You don’t have to be irate and you don’t have to be
numb. This book will guide you back to softness … without silence.
Why now?
What’s holding me back?
How is this different from every other communication book?
Because I’ve lived it. I’ve had to lead, love, build, and recalibrate my tone as a wife, a mother of 4 , and a business
woman. This system merges my expertise in a high level of etiquette, personal development, and executive presence into a short, actionable book. And the stories pouring in from women who’ve heard me teach this? Marriages restored. Bonds with their children repaired. Rooms shifted. Voices found. This isn’t theory. It’s fruit.
I don’t teach from opinion. I teach from the Word of God and from lived transformation. Years of being a dual-certified etiquette expert and personal development coach haven’t just changed my life… they’ve helped transform the lives of countless women around the world.
“Your home should never become a casualty of your career”
A culture that taught women that softness is weakness.
That femininity is passivity.
That you have to either shrink to be loved or shout to be heard.
But we’re flipping that lie on its head.
This is for the woman who’s done picking one side or the other—
and ready to embody both strength and softness.
Why should I trust you?
What is to blame?
How do I know this is real?
- How your nervous system influences your voice
- How to recalibrate your rhythm at home and in leadership
- How to speak with authority without hardening your heart
- How to lead, communicate, and correct—without losing tenderness
Each chapter layers story, scripture, and strategy. It’s not a book you read. It’s a life you begin to live.
- A voice that feels clear, calm, and trusted
- A home that breathes peace again
- A deeper connection to your family and yourself
- A leadership tone that carries weight
- A soft place to land in your friendships
And a way of living that feels as good as it looks.
What are you already losing by not speaking from a place of peace?
Moments that could’ve been gentler.
Words you wish you could take back.
Relationships that feel strained.
“You don’t lose anything by softening…
You just stop carrying weight you were never meant to hold."
What’s in it for me?
What do I have to lose?
How does it work?
How can I get started?
We do not offer an eBook-only. However, every tier comes with a complimentary digital version of the book, which will be delivered once the book is officially released this fall.
For our international readers, while we are currently unable to ship physical books outside the U.S., you’ll still receive full access to the eBook version as part of your purchase.
You won’t find She Speaks Softly on Amazon or in stores. This book is a private release - only available here - so you can receive the full experience, as it was intentionally created.
Thank you for being part of this community. We can’t wait for you to step into softness and feel the shift that so many women have already begun.
Still Wondering If This Is For You?
Yes. This book isn’t just for women who feel silenced. It’s for the ones who are ready to stop striving and start speaking from a deeply anchored place.
What if I’m already confident speaking up? Do I still need this?
Absolutely. Whether you’re leading a team, raising children, dating intentionally, or just wanting to feel more peace in your day-to-day tone—this book meets you where you are.
She Speaks Softly was written with you in mind.
Every woman deserves to feel safe in her own voice.
I’m not married. Will this still help me?
Yes! All my books are. You’ll see Scripture woven into the foundation, but always paired with innovative strategy and personal stories. Simply put, this book is not fluff and it’s not a Bible study. A look into my world is always full of cutting edge curriculum.
Is this a Christian book?
Then you’re in the right place.
Softness is a fruit that can grow with intention, care, and time.
You don’t have to feel soft to become softened.
What if I don’t identify as “soft” naturally?
That depends.
If you come to this book with a closed heart, looking for what you already know…maybe not.
But if you come with a teachable spirit, you’ll find wisdom that goes deeper than success.
Because at some point, every powerful woman has to ask herself:
Am I leading from pressure… or from peace?
I’m already successful. Will this book actually help me?
-Laura A, pediatric nurse & mom of 2
“I didn’t realize how disconnected I had become from my daughter until I started applying Amanda’s wisdom. Slowing down, softening my tone, and making space for connection has
completely restored our bond. We laugh more now. She trusts me again."
-Rachel T, brand strategist
“Once I started showing up with peace and feminine confidence, the quality of women around
me changed. I’m no longer in draining friendships. I’m surrounded by women who honor
softness, speak life, and sharpen me in the best way.”
-Vanessa M. , marketing consultant
“Amanda helped me return to a version of myself I thought I had to leave behind to survive. I’m
still strong, but I’m no longer hard. I feel safe in my own skin again.”
— Danielle R., Financial Executive
“I used to spiral when things felt out of control…at home, at work, everywhere. But Amanda’s
teaching showed me how to regulate first, speak second. Now I don’t just respond, I respond
with wisdom. People listen differently when you speak from peace.”
A Letter From Amanda
Dear Woman of Influence,
I wrote this for the version of you who’s tired of sounding powerful… but never feeling relaxed.
I wrote it for the woman who’s mastered the elevator pitch, but can’t remember the last time she felt soft in her own voice.
I wrote it for the woman who’s done performing, and is ready to start becoming.
You don’t need another voice strategy.
You need a return to the woman who never had to shout.
I pray this book gives you a fresh exhale.
And that softness becomes your new standard.
With Love,
Author of She Speaks Softly